Ages: 18 months - 2.5 years
Ratios: 1:4 (exceeding requirements)
Toilet training: Supported when ready
Language focus: 50 to 1,000 words growth
What you provide: Nappies/pants, spare clothes, comfort items
Toddler's can feel like a constant battle against defiance. "NO!" "Mine!" "Me do it!" These aren't acts of defiance - they're acts of independence emerging. Your toddler desperately wants autonomy, but still needs you desperately. It's exhausting and beautiful.
At Snowflakes, we've designed everything for this contradiction. Low shelves so they can choose independently, child-sized furniture so they can do it themselves.
Some might dread the toddler years; we see them as magical, when personality starts revealing itself, language multiplies daily, and "NO!" becomes the gateway to expression.
Every phase, every challenge and every breakthrough bring them closer to exactly who they should be, and we know exactly how to nurture that spirit while keeping everyone sane.
Everything is toddler-accessible in our rooms. Coat pegs at their height, steps to reach sinks, child-sized cleaning tools and accessible toy shelves. When your toddler says "me do it!" they actually can.
"Would you like to paint or play with playdough?". We stay diligent in offering toddlers choices with safe boundaries. Allowing them the building blocks towards independent choice as they grow older. "What do you want to do?" overwhelms. We provide structured choices that build decision-making skills without anxiety.
Your 20-month-old isn't "behind" if not talking much yet. Your two-year-old isn't "naughty" for not sharing. We understand typical development across all areas of their development and support each child's individual journey without comparison or pressure.
Between 18 months and 2.5 years, vocabulary typically grows from 50 to nearly 1,000 words. We maximise this critical period through:
Constant narration - "You're pouring water into the big jug. It's getting full!"
Expanding utterances - "Big dog!" Us: "Yes, you saw a big brown dog running!"
Rich vocabulary - We use real words: "frustrated" not "upset," "enormous" not just "big"
Songs and rhymes - Building phonemic awareness through rhythm
Books everywhere - Stories at every transition, not just story time
Tantrums peak during toddlerhood. We see them as communication, not misbehaviour.
Our Strategies:
Acknowledge feelings: "You wanted the red cup. You're disappointed."
Offer choices: "Would you like the blue or green cup?"
Provide calm spaces: Quiet corners for overwhelming moments
Teach coping: Deep breaths, counting, squeezing stress balls
Stay consistent: Same responses from all team members
We watch for readiness signs: staying dry longer, announcing wet nappies, showing interest in the toilet, hiding for bowel movements. When you're ready to start, we create a consistent approach between home and nursery.
Our approach
Regular toilet visits (every hour initially)
Celebration without pressure
Accident handling matter-of-factly
Pull-ups or pants - your choice
Reward charts if helpful
Success typically comes within 2-4 weeks when children are truly ready. We never force or shame. "Accidents are just practice," we tell children.
Toddlers aren't developmentally ready for true sharing, but we build foundations:
Parallel play support - Playing alongside, not with, is normal
Turn-taking games - "Your turn, my turn" with simple activities
Multiple resources - Several trucks prevent conflicts
Emotion naming - "You're frustrated because Jamie has the dinosaur"
Problem-solving modelling - "Can we find another truck?"
Grand Union Village - Branch Address:
8 Higham Mews
NORTHOLT,
UB5 6FP
Phone:
02088458998
Regulatory Authority ID:
EY394004
Date Registered by
Regulatory Authority:
10 Sep 2009
Lady Margaret Road - Branch Address:
100 Carlyle Avenue,
SOUTHALL,
UB1 2BL
Phone:
02085716378
Regulatory Authority ID:
EY393991
Date Registered by
Regulatory Authority:
02 Dec 2009
Comer Crescent -
Branch Address:
Comer Crescent,
Southall,
UB2 4XD
Phone:
02085716867
Regulatory Authority ID:
EY497465
Date Registered by
Regulatory Authority:
27 Sep 2016
Norwood Green -
Branch Address:
St Mary's Church Hall,
Norwood Green Road,
Southall,
UB2 4LA
Phone:
02085073222
Regulatory Authority ID:
EY561899
Date Registered by
Regulatory Authority:
07 Aug 2018
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